Adults Sexting – Word of warning

As a concerned adult, I have read a number of articles about the dangers of teen sexting. But as a consenting adult, I think there’s another side to using text messages in a way that can add fun and romance to your relationship. Just as text messaging has an immediacy that brings two people closer no matter how many miles or time zones separate them, sexting between adults can be a great way to build up anticipation, playfulness, and remind your partner that even when you’re apart, they’re on your mind. And that goes for adults sexting of photos and adults sexting of images as well. But use some common sense here when you're using a free sexting site or an app.

If you’re reckless enough to send racy pics of yourself to a stranger you met last week in a bar, don’t be surprised if they fall into the wrong hands, then get spread all over the internet real fast. For those in a long-term relationship, however, here are some easy ways you can turn on your partner by text: You don’t have to get down and dirty in your messages. Hints at a special night you’ve got planned for them, or letting them know you’re hungry for a little couples’ time can stoke the fire. Even without being graphic, 160 character restrictions leave a lot of room for foreplay.

Remember, even the slightest suggestion of a romantic rendezvous may come as a welcome surprise during working hours. “Miss your touch” or even “Hey cutey” could bring a welcome blush, if they are reading your message amidst a pile of office work. You may find that the text message format makes you feel more comfortable telling your partner things you’d feel funny saying out loud. Push the envelope gently, and escalate your expressiveness according to their response when adult sexting.
Now a word of warning if you receive a sext image of someone you think looks a bit young do not even think out sending it on as you could be done for distribution of child porn.

You can never be sure how old someone is, so always be on the safe side. Include a legal disclaimer – Avoid unprotected sexts by adding this to the end of each message: “This sext contains a picture of my junk that may be privileged and/or confidential. This picture is intended for the use of the designated recipient only. If you have received this sext in error, either because I’m drunk or the designated recipient found it to be laughably inadequate and worth forwarding, please be advised that any disclosure, copying, distribution or other use of the contents of this sext is prohibited, and frankly, not cool.” Be safe as Adults sexting.